Dorothy Lyman

Dorothy Lyman
Born (1947-04-18) April 18, 1947
Occupations
  • Actress
  • director
  • producer
Years active1971–present
Spouses
(m. 1971; div. 1983)
Vincent Malle
(m. 1987; div. 2001)
Children3, including Emma Tillinger Koskoff

Dorothy Lyman (born April 18, 1947) is an American television actress, director, and producer. She is most known for her work as Gwen Frame on Another World, on All My Children as the original Opal Sue Gardner, as Rebecca Whitmore on Generations, and on the sitcom Mama's Family as Naomi Harper.[1]

Life and career

Lyman was born on April 18, 1947, in Minneapolis, Minnesota,[2] to Violet E. (née Brightwell) and Hector H. Lyman, who was a stockbroker. She is Protestant.[3] Jill Larson, who succeeded Lyman in the role of Opal on All My Children, and she attended Washburn High School in Minneapolis. She debuted on her first soap opera, A World Apart, as flower child Julie Stark in 1971. Several years later, Dorothy appeared as Elly Jo Jamison, an evil relation of wealthy Orin Hillyer's, (1972-1973) on The Edge of Night, and as architect Gwen Parrish Frame (1976–1980, 1989) on Another World.

Lyman's producing and directing debut came in 1981 with A Couple White Chicks Sitting Around Talking, an off-Broadway[4] comedy.[4]

Her most notable soap opera role, though, was on All My Children as Opal Sue Gardner (1981-1983), for which she received two Emmy Awards[5]—as Outstanding Actress in a Supporting Role in a Daytime Drama Series in 1982 and for Outstanding Actress in a Daytime Drama Series in 1983. Lyman performed characters on other soap operas including Rebecca Whitmore (1990–1991) on Generations, and Bonnie Roberts (1991–1992) on The Bold and the Beautiful.

In 1983, Lyman became well known for her role as Naomi Harper on the sitcom Mama's Family, a role she played for the full six seasons. In an appearance on Vicki Lawrence's talk show Vicki!, Lyman noted that she continued to perform on All My Children concurrently with the beginning of Mama's Family's production, flying back and forth each week between New York City and Los Angeles. While the commute was brutal, she remembered it fondly, referring to that stage of her career as "All My Paychecks".

Lyman's Broadway credits include portraying Jan Morrison in Dancing in the End Zone (1985).[2] During this time, Lyman appeared in the Tales from the Darkside television series in the "In the Cards" episode (1985). She also played Ralphie's mother in Jean Shepherd's Ollie Hopnoodle's Haven of Bliss from 1988, appeared in ALF as Maura Norris in the episode "Tequila" (1988), and in Hunter as Sgt. Carol James Meyers in the episode "The Pit" (1989).

When Mama's Family ended its run in 1990, Lyman went behind the camera, producing and directing 75 episodes of The Nanny (all episodes of the third and fourth seasons, and all but four episodes of the fifth), even making a special guest appearance on the Fran Drescher sitcom. Lyman also had a recurring role on Bob, Bob Newhart's third series.

On the big screen, she made a cameo appearance in I Love Trouble, a film starring Nick Nolte and Julia Roberts. She made another cameo appearance in the 2001 film Blow starring Johnny Depp. She was seen in the 2006 films World Trade Center and The Departed.

In 2007, Lyman guest-starred in the third season of the reimagined Battlestar Galactica as Starbuck's mother. She made a guest appearance on Reba, playing the titular character's mother. She appeared in The Blacklist in the season-six episode "The Pawnbrokers".[6]

Lyman performed My Kitchen Wars in Hollywood and New York as a one-woman show based on the book by Betty Fussell.[7] She wrote and performed in A Rage in Tenure at the Geo Theater in Hollywood in 1995.[5]

In 2010, Lyman produced, directed, and served as cinematographer on the feature-length documentary, Janet's Class. a film whose titular subject, veteran stage and screen character actress/acting teacher Janet Sarno, had appeared previously in Split Ends, Lyman's feature film directorial debut. Summarized by Lyman as simply "a film about aging" and prompted, at least in part, by problems the issue posed to her personally, her new film was conceived with two principal goals in mind: to help the audience—and herself—come to grips with the reality of aging while, at the same time, offering insight into what exactly goes into becoming a capable actor. Scored by Grammy-winning arranger Bill Cunliffe,[8][9] and featuring Sarno and her church basement disciples ranging in age from 50 to 92, the film had, as of December 2025, failed to find a commercial distributor, although it did have at least one public screening, in February 2011 at the Andes Hotel in the city of Andes in upstate New York,[8] where Lyman resided from 2001 through 2018.[10]

Personal life

From 1971 to 1983, Lyman was married to director and actor John Tillinger; they have two children, including daughter Emma Tillinger Koskoff, who is an Academy Awards-nominated producer.[11] Her son, Sebastian Tillinger, is an actor. From her second marriage to French film producer Vincent Malle, Lyman has a son.[12] She is a registered Democrat and is a resident of Washington Depot, Connecticut.[13]

Filmography

Film

Year Title Role Notes
1971 The 300 Year Weekend Jean
1980 Night of the Juggler Nurse Jenny
1984 Summer Fantasy Dr. Nancy Brannigan
1988 Ollie Hopnoodle's Haven of Bliss Mom Television film
Nominated — CableACE Award for Best Supporting Actress in a Movie or Miniseries
1988 The People Across the Lake Ruth Mortimer
1990 Camp Cucamonga Millie Schector Television film
1993 Ruby in Paradise Mildred Chambers
1993 Jack the Bear Mrs. Morris
1993 Young Goodman Brown Sarah Good
1994 Tears and Laughter: The Joan and Melissa Rivers Story Dorothy Television film
1994 I Love Trouble Suzie
1997 Dinner and Driving Rita
2001 Blow Judge
2006 World Trade Center Allison's Mother
2006 The Departed Woman at Bar
2008 Split Ends Director and producer
2009 The Northern Kingdom Nan Director and producer
2011 Janet's Class Director and producer, and cinematographer;
Feature-length documentary follows veteran actress/acting teacher Janet Sarno
and her class composed entirely of aspirants between the ages of 50 and 92.[8]
2015 Bad Hurt Mrs. Salisbury
2016 Blind Judge
2018 The Price for Silence Wendy Moro
2018 Bullitt County The Mrs.
2019 Back Fork Susie
2019 Vault Ma

Television

Year Title Role Notes
1971 A World Apart Julie Stark Series regular
1972-1973 The Edge of Night Elly Jo Jamison Series regular
1975 One Life to Live Sister Margaret
1976-1980, 1989 Another World Gwen Parrish Frame Series regular
1981-1983 All My Children Opal Cortlandt Series regular
Daytime Emmy Award for Outstanding Lead Actress in a Drama Series (1983)
Daytime Emmy Award for Outstanding Supporting Actress in a Drama Series (1982)
1985 Tales from the Darkside Catherine Episode: "In the Cards"
1985 Heart's Island Johnie Baylor Pilot
1988 ALF Maura Norris Episode: "Tequila"
1989 Hunter Sgt. Carol James Meyers Episode: "The Pit"
1983-1990 Mama's Family Naomi Oates Harper Series regular, 125 episodes
1990-1991 Generations Rebecca Whitmore #2 Series regular
1991-1992 The Bold and the Beautiful Bonnie Roberts Series regular
1991-1993 Life Goes On Mary McKenna 9 episodes
1993 Bodies of Evidence Claudia Brooks Episode: "Shadows"
1993 Bob Patty Fleisher 3 episodes
1994 Picket Fences Miriam Thorne Episode: "Cold Spell"
1995 Sisters Dr. Deborah Rosen Episode: "A Lullaby to My Father"
1995 Hope & Gloria Maxine Episodes: "My Mamma Done Told Me" and "Love with an Improper Stranger"
1995 Murder, She Wrote Norma Shey Episode: "The Secret of Gila Junction
1993-1998 The Nanny Director and producer, 74 episodes
2001 Days of Our Lives Contessa Dorothea DiLyman Special guest star
2002 Reba Helen Episode: "Meet the Parents"
2002 V.I.P. Granny Goshen Episode: "Valley Wonka"
1999-2002 The Practice Dr. Diane Starger 3 episodes
2002 Judging Amy Ms. Patterson Episode: "Cause for Alarm"
2003 CSI: Miami Vivian Kensington Episode: "Dead Zone"
2005 Law & Order: Special Victims Unit Principal Parker Episode: "Alien"
2007 Battlestar Galactica Socrata Thrace Episode: "Maelstrom"
2009 Law & Order Judge Dorothy Carr Episode: "Reality Bites"
2015 Elementary Belinda Episode: "Absconded"
2016 Divorce Bridget Episode: "Christmas"
2018 FBI Jilly Peters Episode: "Pilot"
2019 The Blacklist Delaine Uhlman Episode: "The Pawnbrokers (No. 146/147)"
2022 The Girl from Plainville Donna Roy Episode: "Turtle"
2025 Law & Order: Organized Crime Lucia Spezzano Episode: "Lago D'Averno"

References

  1. ^ "Memorable Entertainment Television". Metv.com. Retrieved 2017-06-14.
  2. ^ a b "Dorothy Lyman". Internet Broadway Database. The Broadway League. Archived from the original on May 28, 2020. Retrieved October 2, 2025.
  3. ^ "The complex, tragic story behind Martin Scorsese's 'Silence'".
  4. ^ a b Hastings, Julianne (February 15, 1984). "Dorothy Lyman finds prime-time pace relaxed after hectic days of daytime". Tampa Bay Times. United Press International. p. 7 D. Retrieved October 2, 2025 – via Newspapers.com.
  5. ^ a b Thomas, Bob (August 29, 1995). "Dorothy Lyman at home in 'Nanny' director's chair". The Press Democrat. California, Santa Rosa. Associated Press. p. 24. Retrieved October 2, 2025 – via Newspapers.com.
  6. ^ "Dorothy Lyman screen credits".{{cite web}}: CS1 maint: deprecated archival service (link)
  7. ^ "About Betty | Betty Fussell". Archived from the original on 2016-05-28. Retrieved 2016-06-28.
  8. ^ a b c Garrison, Judy (February 1, 2011). "Dorothy Lyman Documentary to Be Screened at Andes Hotel". The Andes Gazette. Retrieved December 4, 2025. "What impelled Dorothy to make a film of this group of 14 senior citizens, ages 50 to 92, who are taking an acting class from teacher Janet Sarno (also a senior)? 'I am not enjoying aging, am finding it a problem, this getting older. So I forced myself to look at older folks, hoping it might help.' Along with that motivation, her objective was to offer the audience insight into aging, and from a professional perspective she hoped to shine a light on a diversity of acting techniques and what it takes to be a good actor. [...] Dorothy and Janet Sarno became acquainted when Sarno was cast to play Aunt Connie in Lyman’s film Split Ends. Sarno, who has taught music and acting in a multiplicity of settings, teaches this course in a church basement. Dorothy shot this film herself, a first for her. When she started to video the student actors she wasn’t sure it was going to develop into a full length documentary. The absence of a 'crew' may have helped foster an atmosphere where the actor/subjects could easily open up to her. Grammy Award-winner Bill Cunliffe wrote the score."
  9. ^ "Artist: Bill Cunliffe". Grammy.com.
  10. ^ Calhoun, Zack (September 15, 2019). "People You Should Know ... Dorothy Lyman". Visible Souls, The musings and diatribes of a New York actor and playwright. Retrieved December 4, 2025.
    "Tell me about your production of IN THE BLEAK MIDWINTER. What inspired you to write the play? How do you feel rehearsals are going? What do you love most about the show?
    I bought a 200 year old dairy farm in Upstate New York in 2001. I lived there until this past year when my family persuaded me to move in with my son’s family in Connecticut. I packed up my horses and my hens and moved, but it was really hard to leave the friends and community I had created in Delaware County. The play helped me come to terms with my very ambivalent feelings about downsizing and possibly losing my autonomy."
  11. ^ Keegan, Rebecca (April 15, 2019). "Meet Martin Scorsese's Secret Weapon in New York: "It's Emma's City. She Knows Everybody"". The Hollywood Reporter.
  12. ^ "Directing Women : Dorothy Lyman has been through some rough times recently, but don't count out the 44-year-old actress-director". Los Angeles Times. June 16, 1991.
  13. ^ "Dorothy B Lyman from Washington Depot, Connecticut | VoterRecords.com". voterrecords.com.